I write this letter with a heart full of emotion and thanks, not as Michigan State Basketball’s head coach, but as a husband madly in love with his life partner. Lupe, my dear, this message is for you—a homage to the lady whose love has been the foundation of every success, battle, and goal I’ve dared to pursue.
From the moment we met, I knew you were unique. Your strength, grace, and unwavering support have given me the confidence to face every high-pressure situation on the court. But what matters more to me than any trophy or success is the life we’ve created together, full of laughter, late-night conversations, shared hopes, and the security of knowing we’d never confront a problem alone.
You have always been the light that guided me through the chaos of a coach’s life, always prioritizing our children and creating a space of peace, love, and purpose. Despite the fact that I was frequently in arenas filled with screaming fans, it was your quiet strength that kept our home together.
I look back on our path and marvel at how far we’ve gone, from raising our lovely children to facing life’s inevitable storms together. You’ve stood by me through the darkest nights, celebrated with me in the brightest mornings, and reminded me that love is more than just the good times; it’s how we stand by each other when the world falls silent.
Lupe, you have shown me the true meaning of dedication. Your patience, compassion, and belief in me have provided a foundation for my life that is stronger than any basketball arena. When I see your grin, I remember that I am the luckiest man alive – not because of awards or adulation, but because of your love.
Even after all these years, I continue to fall in love with you in new ways—in the way you laugh, care for others, and how your presence can soothe even the most chaotic of days. My heart is still overwhelmed by your beauty, not only the kind that the world sees, but the deep beauty that emanates from your soul.
I treasure our bond and pray every day that we will have many more years to share this path together. My love for you remains constant despite all of life’s changes. Thank you for being my companion, my rock, and my greatest source of joy.
Forever yours.
Tom